Permission Date
Oh baby, are we ever gonna get you in trouble now!
Some people (all of us) just need permission to go gonzo!
So, if you are the wreckless type, here you go ~
The “Permission Date” is a psychological technique for getting the MOST out of your partner. This simple key will reveal more about your partner in one Date than any other.
Very often, all people need is permission to cut loose, and afterwords say “every body was doing it!”
The key to this one is permission of course, but it is NOT asking for it!
Nope ~
It’s GIVING it!
What you might do is say this a couple days before the Date.”
“You have my permission to go completely insane on our Date Saturday!”
Now, “Insane” for one person is just normal for another.
Which just makes our point. You will learn more about your partner when they have “Permission” to go nuts. But, some caution here, seriously ~
DO NOT say critical or hurtful things if you don’t like the wild side of your Date. Say, “that’s interesting! , but let’s try this other thing, okay?”
Remember, you gave them Permission to try something new. It’s the first try, maybe they goof, be forgiving.
We know firsthand that critical Dating is Romance suicide, and your Date may wait a LONG time to try anything fun or creative again.
That is a terrible price to pay.
So, give “Permission” this week, and brace yourself!





